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Article: Dinner and a Movie Again?
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Dinner and a
Movie Again? By Heather Jaillett |
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Are you tired of the same old routine first dates? Need a change
from the dinner and a movie routine? Why not do something that gives
you some insight into each other’s personality and is interesting? Not
that I’m totally against dinner and a movie as a first date or even a
tenth date. There is the benefit that you don’t have to think about
what you’re going to say next for at least 90 minutes (even longer if
it’s a Kevin Costner epic). I just think that a change needs to occur
when I’ve seen all of the movies playing this month at the local
megaplex. Another downside to dinner and a movie is that it can be
inconvenient for those of us who work the nightshift. So I am offering
the following ideas to inspire you to get out of the dating rut, whether
it’s your first or tenth.
For the romantic, a picnic is an ideal choice as long as the weather
cooperates. For inclimate weather you may have to get creative in your
location, but don’t give up hope. Traditionally, picnicking is
something that established couples do, but don’t be afraid to suggest it
early in your romance. In addition to having as simple or elaborate
meal as you choose, you can bring along a Frisbee or ball to play
catch. You can also take a walk. For the less ambitious or weather
bound, you can people watch or share a paper (Sunday papers work
especially well). Another benefit is that daylight dating adds a little
bit of safety, and you can always have an escape excuse if things aren’t
going the way you planned (Examples: I’m babysitting for a friend, I’m
having my teeth cleaned, I have to have dinner with my parents – you get
the idea.). People also seem to be more honest about themselves in the
cold light of day, which is always refreshing. Finally, there is the
benefit that you can always continue the date into the evening if things
are going exceptionally well.
Another great date place is a theme park. If you live near one of the
larger ones, like Disneyland, it can be expensive. Call and ask about
local resident discounts, and if you have friends that work there ask if
they can get you a passes at a reduced rate. Don’t overlook the smaller
carnivals and festivals in your area. It can be significantly less
expensive and equally entertaining. These sort of places have a little
of everything, so you should be able to find something the two of you
can enjoy. This is also a great choice for that first date with his or
her children.
Sports and hobbies are also excellent dating opportunities. Are you a
member of a club? Invite your next date to a club activity. Mountain
biking, hiking, in-line skating, tennis, or any joint hobby can be
excellent first date material. They provide an activity that you both
have a common interest in. Also, there is no better way to bring out
the dark side of people than competitive sports. Wouldn’t you like to
see that up front? You can also impress your date with your skill, or
get a few pointers from him or her.
The whole point though is to do something that is interesting and allows
for you to get to know each other better. Even if you don’t click on a
romantic level, you can always have an enjoyable afternoon that won’t
leave you feeling like you should have done your laundry instead.
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Heather Jaillett is a freelance writer from Washington State. After
extensive dating she finally found her soul mate. She still advises
many on dating solutions, and is constantly researching relationships
and romance. Exploring ways to add romance to electronic communication
is also another pursuit she enjoys.
Heather Jaillett writes for DrDating – a web site for anyone looking for
love online. We have hundreds of articles, E-Books and links to some
great dating and love sites all over the world. DrDating also offers
reviews of some of the most popular dating sites and books.
http://www.DrDating.com/
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